Why ask legal questions on yahoo answers?
And it also depends on how old the kid is, what was in the child support agreement or divorce papers.
Did either of you agree to pay for the child's college? Who took out the kid's student loans?
Just talk to a lawyer and quit being cheap about it.
And for the record, I'm not against you, if that's what you think.
I love my kids, but I think kids should pay for their own college education, not their parents.
But you should just go seek legal counsel.
Well you are going to need a lawyer, obvious yes, but I needed to say it. Anyway if your divorce or your child support papers actually state that you have to pay for college, or a portion of it, then there is no getting out of it. You have a previous legal agreement that can't be changed now unless both you and the ex agree to change it. Now if your court or divorce papers don't literally say that you are paying for college or beyond 18, then no judge will force you to. It is illegal & has been found unconstitutional to force someone to pay for their adult child's college (without a previous agreement), however, you will still need a lawyer just in case you get that crappy judge.
You don't and you are a tool for not seeing your own kid. There is absolutely no excuse why a parent doesn't see there kid.....period.
It's your kid, or in your case your husbands kid. Have you daughters father help with your daughters schooling and loans. It is a parents right and responsiblity to support their children.
Most states require support to be paid while the child is a full time student. There is no way around it. Tell you hubby to stop crying about it and suck it up. Also tell him to grow some balls and build a relationship with his kid.
For you, stop trying to make your husband play daddy to your daughter and get over the jealousy. So he had a kid with another woman, who cares. A good wife would make the man see his kid and would support him in any way.
I think the best way to get out of it would be to talk to the daughter directly and ask if she would rather receive the money herself, or have it go to her mother. The daughter will want to get it herself, so now mom has to either allow that or be the bad guy. So, the father would keep having to cough up money, but at least it wouldn't be going to that evil *****.
This is YOUR CHILD. Toe the line and live up to your commitments. You are the father of this child. There is no way you can get out of paying college expenses. Now go act like a father should act.
Hopefully not. Its called CHILD support not, ADULT support. At 18, your daughter is an adult. She can get a job and pay you rent if you're that hard up for money. He's already paid for 18 years- stop mooching off him.
He made the child and now he is responsible for EVERYTHING, even her education. He needs to be a real man and step up! What do student loans have to do with anything?
you don't...it is your child
Only a low life scumbag would try and weasel out of supporting his child in college.
Man up and do the rght thing by YOUR child.
if you are the father you can't get out of paying until the child is 18 sorry
This is YOUR CHILD, your own flesh and blood, be a father and do the right thing!
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